Every child is different, unique, different personality,different communication style. It’s all about teaching them to learn and grow rather than always winning and losing.
Your presence is more important than your presents to your children. There are 4 types of personalities- reserve, outgoing, people oriented,task oriented. Every child is different and you need to support them even if they are reserve. Not forcing them to be outgoing if they are reserve. Treat every child as different. Don’t judge them but observe them.
The most important thing is don’t try to make your child’s personality different based on your likes and dislikes. Don’t forget that your presence is more important than your presents.
I hope this helped you. Have a great day and days ahead!