Rejection was a topic which i wanted to write in my blog for a long period and now i decided to write one.
1. Think something better will come:- Have a positive mindset that whatever rejection you faced in your life will give a better choice next time. APJ Abdul Kalam was rejected as a Air force person which he believed that his whole life was dedicated to be in Indian Airforce. But later he became a president of India and if he had joined Airforce, he would have saluted the Indian Presidents but he became the President of India. The whole Indian Airforce saluted him. I gave give 1000’s of examples of this. But the point which you need to remember when you face rejection is something better will happen in life. You need to believe it in.
2. Take a time off and try to asses the reasons for rejection:- I know that you might feel that in 1st point I told that you will find something better then what is the point of assessing it. You need to know the reasons for rejection. Because it will make you better person. If you got rejected from a job because they told they selected a person who has post-graduate degree. Then you might think if you want to do a post-graduate degree full time or part time in universities. Or maybe join a online courses like upgrad. Assessing the rejection is very important.
3. Take rejections as feedback:- Consider every rejections as feedback. If your partner tells that they want to end your relationship or marriage because they feel that your not showing love then you can take this as feedback and start showing love to the same person if they agree and wants to be with you or you can take this as a feedback . Then show love in the next relationship.
Rejections can be devastating but i hope you will try following the 3 things i mentioned above and hope this will help you. Thanks for taking your time and reading my blog. Have a great day and days ahead!
